I never mentioned that she got all the "things" she wanted, took, or could steal from me and a handsome settlement on my condo. Okay, I made the mistake of putting her name on the deed and in my state, which is a no-fault state, she gets an equitable share of marital assets. I wanted to go to trial to prove what a non-contributing wife she was, but after 16 months of motions and counter motions and judgments in her favor, and $16,000 of legal fees, I had run out of money and had to give up. Of course, I was told that the only ones who win in a divorce battle are the lawyers, but the X didn't do too bad either. Like I said, she got "things" from me, and money. I became "The Man Who Regained His Sanity" and damn glad for how rich I have become.